When is the best time to think about doing a second child? You often hear people say, "do it now so close growing up." In fact, apart from the need-especially for the mother to regain strength after the first birth should also consider what will lead to the inclusion of a new baby in the family.
A friend of mine told me that the eldest child, the arrival of little sister, stopped to evacuate for a year ..! (Of course parents have had to intervene on the advice of a pediatrician).
On the one hand, in fact, the first-born may not yet be sufficiently independent to allow the mother to devote to the new born, the other the mother may, if the second child comes too soon (according to Berry Brazelton, before the age of Year 2 by the first born), feel they have yet to given to the first. The second year is indeed an important year, in which the child carries a path to independence: "To have two individuals of different ages are heavily dependent but is challenging both physically and emotionally. The risk to children is that a mother may be physically exhausted in the same way. The trend will be or to treat them as children of the same age or a little more push the baby 'too big to grow rapidly "(T. Berry Brazelton," the child from 0 to 3 years)
Brazelton therefore recommend that the second child should arrive when the eldest son has at least 2 years and a half to three.
If you're coming the second son, I suggest a double stroller New Zealand very popular in the UK (and also in Italy that sell ) - see photo above.
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